I
have been reading about the murders of two young people just about
two years ago, in February 2002. This tragic event was made even
more so by the fact that one of the teenagers was in the care
of a local authority and the other one had been ‘looked
after’, or accommodated, or whatever the latest parlance
is for young people who, for whatever reason cannot live with
their own families.
Whatever
it is called presently, we can be sure it will all be changed
if the legislation proposed in the Green Paper Every Child Matters
ever gets into statute. Among other things we are likely to kiss
goodbye to those most favourite whipping boys and girls, Directors
of Social Services, and welcome instead Directors of Children’s
Services. Under the wing of the Department for Education and Skills
(DfES), these new guardians of the nation’s children will
no doubt stride forward fearlessly and we hope be filled with
good intent.
Unfortunately,
I remember the rise of the bright new hopes of the 1970s, Social
Services Departments, each with its very own Director, replacing
Children’s Departments and Children’s Officers. I
also remember Social Work Teams becoming generic, instead of specialist,
thereby expecting workers whose interests and experience lay with
one group to become instantly expert in several others without
benefit of much, if any, additional training.
I
also remember when there was a Department of Education, followed
by a Department for Education and Employment before we got to
the present title. No doubt Ministers and their minions get a
little dizzy with the changes, and perhaps have to check surreptitiously
each morning to see what the sign outside the door in Great Smith
Street says today. I do every time I go that way. Perhaps sign-making
and reprinting stationery have been some kind of Government job
creation scheme.
So
I hope I may be forgiven if I suggest there are some rather more
fundamental things wrong with the way we look after our children
and young people and the people who try to care for them than
will be addressed by new names and yet more reorganisations.
Years
ago, when I was President of the Social Care Association a well
respected Director of Social Services of the day described his
job to me as being akin to rearranging the deckchairs on the Titanic.
It was an image which has stayed with me for twenty years.
Now
I am a Trustee of Social Education Trust, which managed and financed
the Webmag for its first three years. Our strap line is Making
Things Better for Children. One of our reasons for supporting
the Webmag was so that it could be accessed easily by those caring
directly for children and young people and by offering a way of
linking people from around the world together, provide information,
ideas and support through opportunities to learn from each other.
There are nearly 200,000 hits from over 50 countries on each issue
of the magazine, but so far very few people have grasped its potential
for mobilising the workforce or uniting service users to “tell
it how it really is” in order to help to develop really
top quality child-centred services.
I
know that there are pockets of good practice, I know that some
staff work unstintingly and selflessly and I know that some young
people come through the ‘care system’ - horrid term
- to become fulfilled and honest citizens. (Just before Christmas
I had dinner with a friend who had successfully survived the care
system, and whom I had first met when she was in a Regional Assessment
Centre for girls in London after she had been charged with Actual
Bodily Harm, nearly 25 years ago.) But until we can all say hand
on heart that conditions for children living either with or away
from their own families are good enough for our own children we
are failing not only these children but their children’s
children.
Caring
for Children, which now manages the Webmag, has as its strap line
Campaigning for Quality Services for Children. I would really
like to see that from the fifty-first issue all of our readers
start to take the opportunity to use this powerful tool www.childrenwebmag.com
to help start a movement that can make a real difference.
The
inevitable criticisms of the local authority and the not-for-profit
agency which was actually running its services for young people
where the young people were murdered fell into three broad themes.
1.
The management of challenging behaviour
One
of the officials was quoted as saying, “ We would expect
that children with challenging behaviour would be properly cared
for.” No-one would disagree, but what does it actually mean?
I wonder who defines challenging behaviour and whether any of
the Ministers, Civil Servants, Directors of Social Services, Chief
Executives of private and voluntary care providers, Assistant
Directors, Area Officers, Team Leaders, Education Officers etc.
have actually experienced being on the receiving end of challenging
behaviour.
Even
in an Approved School for boys in the north east of England in
the 1960s the boys would not swear in front of female staff, staff
wives or staff children. As a Teacher in a Comprehensive School
in the 1970s I had reasonable expectations that pupils would be
orderly and co-operative. However by the time my cousin retired
early from teaching last year she commented that by 10.40 a.m.
she would normally have been restraining a seven-year-old child
for the third time since school started at 9 a.m., and that physical
aggression, spitting, biting and punching had become the norm
throughout the primary school where she had served loyally for
about twelve years. So can we please acknowledge that challenging
behaviour is not about five-year-olds saying, “Won’t”,
or teenagers slouching and grunting.
Typically,
care workers and probably some teachers have disguised the sheer
awfulness of daily, violent, physical confrontations by describing
it as, “Going off on one”, “Kicking off”,
or “Throwing a wobbly”. To the outsider this gives
no hint of constant barrage of foul and abusive language and the
terror that the threat of physical violence can turn into actual
violent assault on the person by hitting, pushing, or an attack
with a knife or a some flung object. This is not play-fighting
or jolly rough and tumble. It is the manifestation of deep disturbances
and symptomatic of a society which does not encourage self-control
and the niceties of consideration for others.
How
many care workers are subjected to these assaults regularly in
the workplace? How many have that knot of fear in the pit of the
stomach, maybe throughout a shift? How many who might have been
very good carers give up and go to do something else?
A
number of young people are looked after by the Local Authority
because their parents cannot or will not cope with their challenging
behaviour. The approach to families experiencing problems advocated
by the Children Act 1989 was to work in partnership with parents
and to support parents to keep control over their own children,
by means of a variety of community-based interventions.
A
lot can and has been said about the distortion of social work
caused by the over-emphasis on child protection. Working in partnership
with parents, setting up a variety of community-based resources,
nurturing and supporting everyone concerned has to be prioritised
against the demands of acute abuse cases or dozens of unallocated
cases.
2.
Too many moves
The
responsible agencies stated that “We would expect that the
provision of a relatively stable environment would be a priority
for these children.” Again, who could possibly disagree?
But in reality how would this be done? Certainly not in the revolving
door placements which seem to be the norm in several areas and
where the majority of, if not all, staff are agency workers.
Having
been moved out of the family home, some young people embark on
a lightning tour of all the local foster homes, where - surprise,
surprise - their behaviour is still usually challenging and grows
more so with every move as they act out in full technicolour their
script which runs, “I’m so bad even my mother didn’t
want to live with me”. and “I will test to destruction
your attempts to give me another family”. How many young
people have experienced multiple disruptions of foster placements
before finally arriving in the destination of last resort –
a children’s home? By now their CVs include not only their
own families who could not cope and rejected them, but also numerous
other families who could not or would not tolerate being in the
same house with them.
For
generations local authority children’s homes have been externally
managed by people with no background in, and no love for, the
positive contribution which good group care can make in the lives
of distressed young people. In consequence the homes have been
starved of human and physical resources. How many local authority
children’s homes would we be happy to live in, or have our
children live in? From all my long and varied career I can think
of one. Can you give us some actual examples from your own direct
experience?
Most
residential workers lucky enough to get onto a professional qualifying
course are likely to be taught by ex-field social workers, who
do not present the positive aspects of good group care practice
and who certainly are not well equipped to prepare workers to
plan strategies to avoid violent situations, nor techniques for
dealing with a sturdy fifteen-year-old in full flight across the
room brandishing a chair. Many workers will have to get by with
a brief induction and, if they are lucky, some in-house sessions
in staff meetings.
Both
the covert and overt messages are potent. Residential care is
residual welfare provision and the people who live and work there
are of little account. Children don’t vote but the neighbours
do. “We certainly don’t want a home in our street.”
Is your home well supported in the community where it is located?
How do you feel about your job?
Then
we need to take account of the squeeze from both sides. The parents,
possibly feeling guilty, can be very critical of what the Social
Services do with and for their rejected children. They couldn’t
or wouldn’t raise their own children, but they have strong
views, aired loudly about what and how other people do it in loco
parentis. We hear plenty about where Social Services went wrong.
Did we ever yet hear a parent proclaim in the tabloids that the
original fault was theirs for rejecting their own child and that
carers did the best they could?
The
young people are also more vocal about their complaints and criticisms.
Social workers - and particularly residential workers - are under
pressure from young people, who claim to know their rights and
threaten “to get staff done” if they do not always
comply with even the most absurd requests. Some staff have therefore
become wary of applying even those few sanctions allowed under
the mountain of regulations, by which children’s homes are
now operated. What experiences have you had of parents or residents
complaining about you?
So
far I have been building a picture of a sure fire disaster : a
young person experiencing rejection, building up a history and
a reputation to the point of entering a children’s home,
which is chronically under-resourced and where none of the senior
staff responsible for managing it actually knows what goes on
there. Add to this the rights of both parents and young people
to complain and the expectation on staff to maintain confidentiality.
Is there any wonder that a lot of young people leave care with
poor academic attainments and that they are over-represented among
the unemployed and the prison population?
But
it should not and need not be like that. There are 74,000 or so
young people in another kind of group care, which is prestigious,
where there is usually competition for places, for which people
are prepared to pay a lot of money, which has strong expectations
of academic excellence and success in adult life. There is no
reason why it cannot and should be like this for all of our children.
There
have certainly been enough prescriptions written over the years.
Much
that is suggested would cost no more than current levels of expenditure.
Much of it is about forward planning and control over admissions
and movement of young people in or out of the home. This would
really mean a change of attitudes. Sadly, a lot of departments
and individual homes might claim that all of these measures are
in place. The issue then is the gap between what managers think
is happening and the actual service delivery. Theory does not
often accord with practice. This is in part because staff are
reluctant to tell it how it is and in part because very few who
carry out inspections know what they are looking for and where
to find it.
3. Preparation for Leaving Care
Finally,
in the tragic story of the dead teenagers there was embedded the
old problem of how young people are prepared to leave local authority
care and live unsupported in the community. I resist the use of
the term live independently because no-one I know actually does
live independently. Most people have a support network, even if
some are only people to pass the time of day with. The problem
for our itinerant young people in care is that it is difficult
to retain any social links because of the multiple moves, changes
of schools and poor social skills. In some places neighbours prefer
to avoid young people, rather than wish them a good day, being
fearful of what it might lead to.
The
average age of young adults leaving the family home in the community
continues to rise, as the cost of eating, housing, clothing and
recreation also rise. However, for the most vulnerable, least
well prepared, lowest earners or un-waged, the age at which they
tend to move “into the community” is still around
16, although the age to which local authorities are responsible
for them has risen to 21.
Some
places have Leaving Care Programmes, or special units to train
young people for life outside. Do we send our own children somewhere
else to learn life skills, or do they absorb them as part of family
life? It is certainly tough trying to provide a suitable environment
for a teenager within the constraints of expectations of local
authority managers and elected members. O what anguish had to
be suffered about giving a teenager a key to the front door and
having them come in after the staff shift finished at 10 p.m..
What creative wheezes were needed to find cash money for a young
person to go and buy their own food, when the rest had to come
in a big van, ordered on an official form and paid for centrally.
Quite
a lot of young people do not want to participate in such programmes
because they see it as leading to the final rejection. Some sabotage
even the most caring attempts to help them. Some, on the basis
of “Get in first”, demand to be put into a flat, or
engineer their rejection from the last home in order to short
cut the pain of leaving. Some are genuinely frustrated by the
children’s home environment and feel that life would be
better on their own. A lot fail, become very lonely, don’t
eat properly and some get exploited through not having the skills
to get unwanted visitors to leave. Quite a lot end up on the streets
and eventually in prison, or dead.
I
have no doubt that most people reading this would agree that we
could do better. I hope that you will also agree that you have
some knowledge, skills and experience which you could share through
the medium of the Webmag in order to make a real difference for
many children and young people. It would cost you a little time
and maybe a few pence to email a response, but only you have the
ability to “tell it how it really is”, in order to
turn phrases like challenging behaviour, a relatively stable environment
and preparation for leaving care into hard, realistic facts so
that the policy makers and managers do get a more realistic picture
and hopefully join us in doing something about it. Those working
directly with children and young people can actually do something
to change things by starting today and writing in to the Webmag
with your own views and experiences.