
In
Russia, remarkable work is under way in this residential
community where looked after children are educated and
supported to allow them to reach their true potential.
The
Kitezh Children's Community was founded 10 years ago by
Dr Dmitry
Morozov. It is a village community of supported foster
families providing education to university entry or vocational
training courses. Plans are now advanced for the construction
of a second community closer to Moscow
We are grateful to Masha Pichugina, Marina Maximova, Liza
Hollingshead and David Dean for this enlightening account.
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David
is the consultant assisting Kitezh in its move towards becoming
a
therapeutic community .The founder of Raddery School in Scotland
and its Principal from 1978 to 1995, David served for a period
as vice chairman of The Charterhouse Group and now works to promote
effective therapeutic environments in Russia, Romania and Africa.
Why
is it that the communal way of life is in a very strong position
to offer the best conditions for the creation of a developing,
holistic, educational and healing environment? Why has it been
impossible successfully to create such an environment in the vast
majority of our children’s homes?
As
our civilisation develops, popular perceptions shift, and there
is a change in the generally accepted view about how best to bring
up children. The new era, mercifully, does not require us to churn
out bland, law-abiding citizens, who are simply component parts
of a society based on the once necessary disciplines required
for a mass production society and a stifling ideological construct.
When we, in our community, Kitezh, are engaged in providing a
child with an education, a family upbringing and therapeutic treatment,
our ultimate aim is to allow them to discover their true calling,
to facilitate the process of self-realisation within a rapidly
developing civilisation. A micro social system such as we have
here based on a communal way of life requires a young person consciously
to make decisions about what is right and what is wrong.
Notwithstanding
our status as a residential community we have a duty to our children
to relate realistically with the wider community for even in the
Russia of today our children still have to learn to survive!
Having
outlived their traditional function, children's homes have now
fallen out of favour in many countries. It is only in our country,
Russia, that, with a misdirected persistence, we continue to place
all children who have been left without parental care in state
institutions.
Moreover,
it is illegal to separate siblings, and therefore everyone is
treated in exactly the same way. No distinction is made between
those who have talent and those who are simply incapable of development
or between those who have already turned to crime and substance
abuse and those who love to read. The system does not treat people
as individuals!
But if the care system for homeless children in Russia were to
be based entirely on fostering and adoption, could the foster
or adoptive family take the place of the children's home, and
would it be equipped to cope with all the challenges involved?
Our experience of working with foster families in the Kaluzhskaya
Region shows that this form of care has its own shortcomings.
Functioning in isolation, without the support of a developed social
structure, the foster family cannot cope with all the problems
that arise. Too much depends on 'external factors', such as the
environment in which the family live, the school which the children
attend, the friends which the children make locally, and indeed
the extent to which the foster parents understand basic psychology.
If
a child is to start to come to terms with having been abandoned,
there is a need not only for an appropriately skilled psychologist
(of which there are not nearly enough in Russia), but also for
foster parents who can demonstrate a capacity for the task and
have themselves received special training in aspects of psychology.
It is already well known that the development of a well-rounded
individual is a complex, multifaceted process. Whether we like
it or not, the child will in a free and largely unpredictable
manner draw information and indeed his whole life experience from
his environment.
When
a child is growing up he is influenced by a million unpredictable
environmental factors that often defy rational analysis.
For
there to be a happy outcome, an abandoned child or 'orphan' in
our terminology, must be provided with a positive holistic world
that can stimulate his unimpeded development in accordance with
his instincts. It must provide for his effective rehabilitation
and adaptation, and ultimately accelerate the pace of development
so that the child can 'catch up'. It is this holistic world that
can provide the starting point for therapeutic treatment and the
foundation on which the more positive and constructive components
of personality can form allowing the development of a child's
ability to reason, to question, to appreciate, to work and to
love.
It
goes without saying that the work required goes beyond that which
can be accomplished by a family alone. As children draw the information
that either confirms or refutes their new experience from all
possible sources, it is imperative to co-ordinate professionally
the efforts of the family, teachers, medics and in fact everyone
who has contact with the orphan child. This is why we believe
that a therapeutic community offers by far the best solution to
the problem of housing, educating and nurturing
orphan children.
As International Associate members of the Charterhouse Group of
Therapeutic Communities we at Kitezh appreciate the value of this
community of communities by which we have been embraced. We will,
of course, develop our programmes within the context of our own
culture and, at the same time, welcome constructive thinking from
other practitioners and forums.
The
main objective of Kitezh is to help children establish a new view
of the world that is based on goodness and reason.
How
Children are Chosen for Kitezh
The following is an extract from Guide for Foster Families by
Kitezh founder Dmitry Morozov, published in Russia in October
2004
The
orphanages provide children with the basics of food, clothing
and shelter but they do nothing to motivate them to study or develop
themselves. The most disadvantaged children in an ordinary orphanage
are those who are bright and intelligent but who have no opportunity
to realise their potential through this system.
They
are not encouraged in their schoolwork and are often stigmatised
at school because they come from an orphanage. Once a child turns
18, the orphanage is no longer responsible for, nor interested
in, the children, and they are cast out into the world with no
real possibility for further education or skills training.
Kitezh aims to select children who can most benefit from living
there.
The criteria for selecting children for Kitezh are: 1) do they
want to
come and b) are they eager to study?
Kitezh staff liaise with local social workers about which orphanages
to visit and find out from the staff which children would benefit
most from coming to Kitezh. Over the years Kitezh has developed
good relationships with the administrators of local orphanages
although some are reluctant to release children from their institutions
into foster family care for financial reasons.
A
member of staff trained in Art and Play Therapy goes to the orphanages
to meet the children in a preliminary assessment. She asks them
to draw pictures that reveal information about their inner world,
their ability to relate, and the level of attachment that they
had to their parents when they were very young.
Then
arrangements are made for selected children to visit Kitezh for
a few weeks to give them the opportunity to find out what it means
to live in the community. When a child asks to stay in Kitezh,
the choice of family depends on which adults the child forms an
attachment to, which families have space and the ages of the other
children in the family. It is not a good idea to have children
of the same age with the same needs in one family. If their legal
documentation allows them to be released into foster care, they
may do so. To acquire permission from living relatives and even
a birth certificate can take a long time. Kitezh also runs annual
summer camps for groups of children from local orphanages and
some of these children ask to stay.
Integration and Therapeutic Development
process:
The daily schedule is structured and very full which helps the
children integrate into community life. They have no time to be
bored or to revert to their previous bad habits. The children
have lessons in school until lunchtime, at two o'clock. Then there
is an hour of work in the community (chopping wood, helping in
the kitchen etc), followed by homework, play rehearsals, children's
meetings and other activities. Half an hour before bedtime there
is family time for tea and sharing. Some evenings the children
watch films or cartoons that demonstrate positive values. Every
Saturday night there is a disco that goes on long after most adults
can stay awake!
Much time is spent in rehearsals for plays. There are many celebrations
that provide great opportunities to put on theatrical performances.
But these are not just entertainments as they have a therapeutic
purpose. The children learn to express themselves creatively in
a co-operative situation and the applause and approval they receive
builds confidence and self-esteem. We have observed significant
changes in children as a result of playing major roles in productions
such as Jesus Christ Superstar, My Fair Lady, and Romeo and Juliet.
Community Structures that support the therapeutic
process:
The Pedagogic Council: made up of teachers, psychologists and
mentors who meet daily to discuss education issues. It may have
the same function as one part of the weekly Community Meeting
or the Awareness Meetings by bringing in a child who has misbehaved
in some way to discuss the problem with him or her and to devise
a form of compensation for the misdemeanour. Punishment is a concept
that we try to avoid. A foster parent may also attend to discuss
a problem with a particular child and together solutions are devised.
The Small Council: Three older children are elected by the other
children to form the 'Small Council'. They are responsible for
organising practical activities for all the children including
managing homework time, community work and social activities.
The Community Meeting: every Sunday night all children and adults
meet for one hour. The pattern of the meeting is based on the
original work of the family therapist, Virginia Satir which was
developed at Raddery School in Scotland over 17 years and under
the direction of David Dean to provide an appropriate format for
their weekly Community Meetings. Here, as at Raddery, following
ordinary community notices, the children and adults together set
the agenda and raise issues that concern them. Everyone is free
to comment and a resolution is reached with common agreement.
This is followed by a round of hopes and expectations and closes
with a round of appreciations.
The
Game: "I create my own world"
An interesting and demanding therapeutic 'Game' has been developed
at
Kitezh that involves all children. The Game provides a structure
for the integration of new children and at the same time a motivating
force for all children for self-evaluation to improve their behaviour
and levels of achievement. Although no child is compelled to join
the Game, they all want to because it is important for them to
be a part of everything and to belong.
The
Game is guided by the older teenagers and young adult teachers
who are known as Custodians. The children divide into different
levels according to their level of responsibility within the group.
They wear different coloured badges to indicate their level. Each
level has specific themes to work on and the children set their
own goals within each level. All newcomers start out as 'babies'
or 'Pupsiky'. Once they have achieved some simple aims such as
being well behaved in their family or studying well, they are
promoted to 'Pupil'. Here the aims are more stringent: truthfulness
and sincerity, to create beauty and harmony, be willing to listen
to criticism and change their behaviour for the better, to develop
gratitude and patience. The next stage is 'Mentor' where they
take this role to a younger child. The final stage is 'Custodian'
where they
become caretakers of the spirit and values of Kitezh. If a child
seriously errs he or she may revert to 'Pupsik' and start all
over again.
Small
groups of foster parents and their children meet with their Custodian
weekly. There each child makes specific goals for him or herself
that can be achieved in 1-2 weeks, and discusses their progress
with their current goal. The parents may comment and together
they decide whether the child is ready to progress to a new goal
and a new level. On the wall in each family home are charts where
the children mark up their own progress every day. Some parents
also set goals and mark up their progress.
Goals
may range from a commitment to listen to mother, to interact more
with
others or not to smoke cigarettes.
When the Small Group agrees that a child has achieved his or her
goals for the first level, the Pedagogical Council is consulted.
If all teachers agree, then it is announced at the weekly Community
Meeting and the child receives a round of applause from everyone
and a new badge. It is a special achievement.
The Awareness Meeting: The children also meet together for an
Awareness Meeting twice a week. These meetings complement the
weekly Community Meeting. One of the three elected members of
the Small Council leads the meeting and Mentors and Custodians
attend. Each child is invited to share what has happened that
day or that week, what was interesting and successful. It is also
a time to discuss difficulties in the open. Then they give appreciations
to those who have done well. This group is beneficial for the
children because it gives them a structure and a place where they
can support each other.
What
happens when someone behaves badly? The children manage it themselves
in the group. A problem for one member becomes a problem for the
group. For example, one day the blackboard had been slashed. Masha
Pichugina, 17, and the head of the Small Council, announced this
at the next Awareness Meeting. She said, "Somebody destroyed
the blackboard. This is a pity because it cost a lot of money.
It is also a pity because it is our blackboard and we use it all
the time. If someone is responsible will
they say?"
Two
boys admitted to it.
"Why did you do that?" asked Masha.
"I was so angry." One of them explained. "I wanted
to go to town and I wasn't allowed. I wanted to destroy something."
"How do you feel about it now?"
"I understand it was stupid."
"Next time you are angry, what will you do? They might need
help with this everyone. Make some suggestions."
Instead
of shaming and blaming, the children try to think of constructive
ways to channel this kind of energy. Nevertheless, it is understood
that the boys did destroy something valuable and they must make
compensation. For example, instead of the usual one hour of work
on the farm, which we all do, they should work four hours for
a couple of days. Better still, the child in question may offer
to undertake an appropriate compensation for his misdemeanour.
In this way they are encouraged to take responsibility for their
actions.
Mentors' meetings each week discuss with Mentors, Custodians and
teachers how best to respond to the behaviour of the children:
who needs appreciation, and who needs more effective management.
Appreciation is most important: recognition for all successes,
however small, must be acknowledged. This encourages the children
to continue to succeed.
This complex, time-consuming yet valuable structure provides support
for the children to learn how to strengthen their will and develop
positive behaviour patterns; it provides support for the foster
parents in that they are not alone in their work to rehabilitate
their children; and it reinforces the day by day concentration
on therapeutic education for all
children. It also demands of the adults that they, too, are engaged
in the process of inner development as they support their children
to grow and change. Without a community structure for the foster
families it is difficult to imagine how this could be achieved.
kitezh@kaluga.ru
Much support for Kitezh is now coming from both Russians and ex-patriots
in Moscow and from the Ecologia Trust in Scotland which over several
years has sought funding for professional training and development
costs: info@ecologia.org.uk