An every day saga of life at Bluebrick Children’s Home


Among those involved are the following
:
Young people : Jilly 16, Dwain 14, Nickki 14, Angi 13, Abdul, 14, Gary 12.
Staff : Manager : Sarah
Deputy : Vinney
Residential social workers : Leroy, Janice, Karin, Claudia, Nick, Fran and Justin
External Manager : Richard


Caught in the Web


“Good news, everyone”, announced Sarah at the weekly staff meeting. “The Office has given the go-ahead for us to install the internet for use by the young people.”

“At last,” responded Leroy, “ we’ve been waiting ages for a simple decision”.

“But we have to make sure it’s used properly. No unsuitable web sites and fair shares for all are our main points to watch out for.”

“We can have a child block put on undesirable sites and we can ask who wants to use it, and have a timetable for access,” suggested Vinney.

“I still can’t see why we need to have the damn thing in the house,” grumbled Fran.

“Because many of their peers at school have it, because it is a great source of information for homework and can help with literacy and is generally fun. That’s why,” replied an enthusiastic Justin.

The young people greeted the news with cheers and excitement.

“Me first,” announced Dwain.

“Oh yer, and who says so?” challenged Nickki.

“Before you two start a row, let me point out a couple of things”, said Vinney.

“First, I want all of you who plan to use the internet to give me your names and to sign up to a few simple rules. Then when you have done that, I will draw up timetable of who and for how long you can be on line. Does that sound fair?”

“I suppose so, though I don’t like the sound of the idea of ‘rules’. I thought it was meant to be fun”, responded Dwain.

“The other thing is that Justin will be with you for the first session to go through the rules and help with the process of using the net. After that you are on your own, but you can come to Justin or me if you get stuck or want advice, okay?”

The novelty effect of use of the net soon wore off and its use became part of the leisure activities of most of the young people. Staff were quite pleased that young people would pop into the computer room and quietly pass their allocated 30 minutes on the net.

Justin wandered into the ‘net room’ , as it was being called, one evening and was taken
aback by the image he saw that Dwain was hastily trying to shut down.

“I thought we had put a block on unsuitable web sites”, murmured Justin.

“It’s okay, Jus. That wasn’t a web site; it was just an attachment to an email my mate has sent me”, explained Dwain.

“Does he send you many like that?” quizzed Justin.

“No, that was the first one. He did for a joke”.

A loud crashing noise came from the lounge.

“Oh no. Nickki is having another of her outbursts”, groaned Justin as he dashed off to help calm the incident.

At the next staff meeting concern was expressed about Dwain staying out late rather a lot in the last two weeks.

“Yes, and he’s always on his mobile, and as soon as he finishes his nightly session on the net he is off out and not seen until 11 o’clock and sometimes later,” said his key worker, Leroy.

“That reminds me”, interrupted Justin, who went on to report on what he had found Dwain viewing on the net during the week.

“Come on, you lot, don’t be a gang of prudes. I bet you looked at dirty pictures when you were growing up,” chided Nick.

“There is a line between getting het up over normal adolescent curiosity and denying our responsibility to guide and protect young people as they grow up,” observed Sarah.

“I think we don’t want to over-react, but I think we owe it to Dwain to cheek things out with him. I think that the next session Dwain spends in the net room Leroy should go in with him and ask to view some of his emails and chat room sites, as well as trying find out where he is spending his evenings,” proposed Vinney.

Dwain reluctantly agreed to this plan, as Leroy reported to Sarah.

“He’s been posing as a 19-year-old and getting in touch with gay men, and he’s been
spending some evenings meeting a few of them, - and he’s given his mobile phone number to some man in London who wants to meet him.”

“He is obviously exploring his sexual orientation but he is only 14 and in the same way we would protect the girls from exploitation from older men, we have a duty to step in and help Dwain,” said Sarah.

At the next young people’s meeting Sarah announced that it had been decided to suspend further use of the net by young people for the time being because some young people had been using it inappropriately.

This news was greeted with some anger and some relief by young people, who had heard from Dwain about his activities.

“We are not saying it is banned forever, just that we want to explore ways of making sure it can’t be misused,” added Sarah.

“What about mobile phones? Are you going to take them?” asked Gary, who hadn’t got one.

“Shut up, thicky”, snapped Dwain.

“I sometimes would like to, but unless they are used at the wrong time, like during the night, I do not want to confiscate what is the property of the young people who own them”.

Just then Dwain’s mobile rang out its rocky call tune.

“Turn it off, Dwain. This is our group meeting and outsiders are not invited,” said Jilly.


 

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Joke sent in from Bluebrick young people
(by e-mail before their computer was closed down):

When Noah got back to dry land, God told him that he wanted him to build a second ark.

"Certainly, if You say so", said Noah. "What sort do you want?"

God said, "I want a really big one this time, with lots of floors in it".

"And do You want me to fill it with birds and animals like the last one?"

"No", said God, "just fish. Well, actually just with lots and lots of carp".

"Why?" asked Noah. "Because I fancy having a multi-storeyed carp ark."



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