No-one told them to do it


I find spontaneous group behaviour fascinating. We do a lot of things because we are told to - by our parents, by teachers, by police or by the law. Some things, though, we do because we choose to do them, and sometimes lots of us decide we want to do the same things at the same time.

Someone must start a Mexican wave off, but it is not compulsory to join in; people just do it. The only pressure I have ever seen on people to take part is when the wave reaches the Pavilion in a cricket match and everyone looks to see if the stuffy old members will join in, earning boos or cheers depending on their response.

No-one told motorists to let people in who were joining the motorway, but it became standard courteous behaviour to move over. No-one tells drivers to rubberneck when there’s a crash on the other side of the motorway, but there are always jams caused by curious people slowing down to see what happened.

No-one instructed the populace that they must have video recorders or mobile telephones, but within a few years they have become part of the nation’s way of life, changing social behaviour. Having to stay in to watch a favourite television programme is no excuse to avoid going out to meet someone, now that we have video recorders. Mobile phones have led to a massive amount of communication, especially among the young, and text messaging has led to the creation of a whole new written language.

The impact of these new behaviours on children and young people have been considerable. (For all I know there may be a number of people who have earned PhDs from studying these things, but I’ve not read their theses, and these are just my own observations.)

Children are now much more confident with technology. A hundred years ago, technology in the home was very limited, and running a household consisted of passing skills on from one generation to the next, with the accumulated knowledge and wisdom of the elders counting for something. Forty years ago, if a family acquired a new piece of machinery, the father carefully read the instruction book and learnt how to use it before letting others have a go, and it was a special occasion when a child was allowed to try it out. Now, children are straight into the latest gadget, trying out all the buttons and learning what works faster than their parents.

It is perhaps the new-found confidence of young people that led to their political activity at the start of the Iraq war. No teacher or parent told them that they should demonstrate or take a particular line. Their action was a spontaneous response to the situation, and it augurs well at a time when formal organised politics is seen as increasingly irrelevant by the electorate.

Fashion and music are two more examples where behaviour is now very different from the past. There was popular music - but not a teen culture - before the 1950s. Since then, teenagers have been a distinct force to be reckoned with in music and in the styling of clothes. There are, of course, trend-setters and commercial influences at work in these fields, but there are also mass movements which are built up of thousands of free choices made by individuals, such as the craze over the last few years for tattoos and body-piercing.

That young people have choice is a good thing and modern technology gives them a lot of scope for self-expression, but it has to be admitted that some of their spontaneous choices are harmful, and greater scope can mean greater freedom to abuse. Mobile phones, for example, have led to a new dimension in bullying. Freedom to travel has led to excessive behaviour in some Mediterranean holiday spots. Greater access to alcohol and drugs has caused serious harm for a lot of young people. I suspect that the volume of a lot of pop music will take its toll in early hearing loss as well.

On balance, though, young people today have greater opportunities than ever before. They are less restricted by the traditions and customs of their elders than ever before. It remains to be seen what sort of society they will create, which changes will be temporary and which will change our ways of living permanently. You can be sure, though, that they will produce some spontaneous group behaviours which are outside the ways they have been taught to behave. Let us hope that these changes are creative, developing and sustaining the life of the community and making the world a better place to live in.




Children Bible Sayings:

The people who followed the Lord were called the 12 decibels.

The epistles were the wives of the apostles.

One of the opossums was St. Matthew who was also a taximan.

St. Paul cavorted to Christianity. He preached holy acrimony, which is
another name for marriage.

A Christian should have only one spouse. This is called monotony.



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