The Four Phases of Human Life

 

I did wonder whether to model this piece on Shakespeare’s brilliant thumb-nail sketch of the Seven Ages of Man, but as Jaques talked only about men, it would not have been politically correct. What I want to write about affects men, women and children.

I was asked the other day by my grandchildren which the main pop groups were in the charts when I was a teen-ager, and it struck me that the pop culture was only just beginning in those days. Before then, teenagers did not really see themselves as a significant separate group, with its own culture and its own stars. Teen culture is a phenomenon of the last fifty years.

Then I began to think of the ever-growing numbers of older people, the impact of grey power at the ballot box and the increasing number of dependent older people needing care. The Queen is sending out record numbers of telegrams to celebrate 100th birthdays. The numbers in the workforce in the United Kingdom meanwhile may drop, unless there is significant immigration, and it is this diminishing workforce to whom the growing numbers of older people are turning for care and help.

But people are not only living longer. They are fitter longer as well. I recall people who were worn out by physical exertion and appalling working conditions who were in their fifties when I was young. Now, people are fit and enjoying all sorts of activities into their seventies and eighties.

Things have certainly changed since my youth, but what pattern will emerge from all these changes? I’m flying a kite that we should look at life in four phases, each of twenty-five years, broadly matching generations. The first covers early childhood, schooling and university and is essentially developmental. The second covers the main working period, including the gaining of experience and promotion. The third covers a period not really known to Shakespeare, when people are experienced, still fit and capable and enjoying second careers. The fourth is old age, ending up, as with Shakespeare, when we are “sans everything”.

In parallel with the coming of the pop culture, we have seen increasing separation of the generations. Young people are schooled in massive comprehensives. Teenagers and young adults go clubbing, away from children and older adults. If you visit many major cities, you will see people aged from their 20s to 50s in the city centres, but few children or old people. Older people, meanwhile, are grouped together to live in sheltered housing complexes or special retirement estates. We are stratified and grouped by age, sometimes by choice, sometimes by social convention, and sometimes by law or the systems and services of the state.

One outcome is a distancing between different age groups, which results in treating other groups as something different, perhaps to be criticised, rejected or feared. Stratifying the community by age groups is not natural. It leads to misunderstandings and prevents the sharing of information, wisdom about life and support in the face of crisis.

Perhaps it is time to go back to a more natural community mix. For most of history, social groupings have consisted of people from all generations (though perhaps with relatively few very old people). If people work from home more, using new technology, they need not go off to work places where they huddle with their peer group in offices. If new technology is used, perhaps children can be taught in smaller groups nearer their homes, where their families can participate more and share life-long learning.

It may be that the third phase of life I described above will give us the chance to rebuild some of these bridges. If the community is to function effectively, it will need these people to be active and not simply enjoying perpetual holiday following early retirement. If they are to find their lives worthwhile, they will need significant roles to play. Surely there is a lot they could do for children and young people, as classroom assistants, providing leisure opportunities, offering individual attention for slow learners and devising individual programmes for disaffected young people or offenders.

This column is not as poetic as Shakespeare’s Seven Ages, but we face major difficulties if we do not address the demographic problems I’ve touched on. I don’t expect Hoon’s Four Phases to be remembered in four hundred years’ time, but I do hope the ideas scattered in this column may trigger a few thoughts, and that we think hard about the options facing us, and the scope they offer to give children a better deal.




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