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Dear Editor,

Thanks for an excellent and informative Webmag.
At CfC/FICE we are beginning to think about producing our second "White Book". This is a tool more widely used on the continent, for influencing the main political parties as they near a General Election. We created such a "Book" at the last Election and sent it to all the main parties where it was warmly received. As the next Election is not too far away we wanted to begin this process again and are gathering ideas and specific issues for inclusion. Our focus tends to be on developments that will improve conditions for all children where ever they may live, but we are also keenly interested in developments in professional practice.
If any Webmag readers are interested in contributing to this process we would be very happy to hear from them,
Yours,
John Blythman
CfC Committee Member.
 

Dear Editor

I worked in the care system for many years, mainly in an adolescent unit designed for young people leaving care. The unit was run on the lines of "you are responsible for your own actions" and could prove quite painful for the youngsters on occasions.

I have been retired for some years now and have remarried and moved to another town in the North of England. Imagine my surprise when my husband received a telephone call from my ex-neighbour saying that a man called George (name changed to preserve his anonymity) had called asking for me. She had his telephone number and if I felt so inclined, would I phone him.

Curiosity got the better of me and I made the call. It was from a young man now in his thirties who had been resident in my unit in 1982 and for whom I had been the key worker. Initially he was disappointed that I could not remember him, but as we chatted, memories came flooding back. I regret to say that my first thought was that he wanted to touch me for a hand-out, but it transpired that he really wanted to contact me to say thank you for the time he had spent with us. He had recently divorced and had time to sit and analyse his life and felt he must put things in order. He had gone to his old school, seen the headmaster and apologised for the things he had done there. He expressed his thanks for the time with us and having given it a great deal of thought, had decided to see if he could become employed in the 'care system.' I gave him what limited advice I could.

Two months later, George contacted me again to say that in addition to his full time job, he was now doing an evening course at college and was helping in the running of a local youth club. He has his sights firmly set on working with children in care, feeling that his experiences may help others through this traumatic time in their lives.

My old officer in charge frequently said that we should always be conscious of the effect we had on the young people in our care and it seems that he was right.

MT

P.S. I discovered your internet site by accident - and am very pleased I did.



HAPPY BIRTHDAY "CHILDREN.UK"!

The German FICE-Section called "Internationale Gesellschaft für erzieherische Hilfen" sends its best greetings to the new Web Magazine of the FICE UK Section. It is a great idea of our colleagues to launch such a brillant medium for trans-national communication!

May it be a vivid and up-to-date platform for global information around the field of child and youth care!

Best regards from Frankfurt!
Yours,
Wolfgang Trede
Secretary General of IGFH

http://www.igfh.de
wolfgang.trede@igfh.de


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Dear Editor

I have just visited children.uk. Not only am I very impressed by what you are doing, but I have clicked on to the FICE Germany Section Home page. They have lots of useful information in very good English. For the first time I have the feeling that I belong to a living international organisation. Keep up the good work CfC. It is very exciting. What other stimulating developments can we look forward to in future ?

Kate Jervis



Dear Editor

Like your mag. Here are a few thoughts to cheer you up!

A bus station is where a bus stops. A train station is where a train stops. On my desk, I have a work station.
Clones are people two.
If you can't be kind, at least have the decency to be vague.
Nostalgia isn't what it used to be.
Think "honk" if you're telepathic.
If a cow laughed, would milk come out her nose?
So what's the speed of dark?
How come you don't ever hear about gruntled employees? And who has been dissing them anyhow?
After eating, do amphibians need to wait an hour before getting OUT of the water?
Why don't they just make mouse-flavored cat food?
I just got skylights put in my place. The people who live above me are furious.
Isn't Disney World a people trap operated by a mouse?
Since light travels faster than sound, isn't that why some people appear bright until you hear them speak?

Regards
Stuart Gregory



Dear Children.uk

I've now been able to hit the WebMag from my own computer for the first time. I've had a lengthy browse and continue to be very impressed at the quality of the content, layout and variety of material. Continued congratulations!

There are may things I'd like to discuss from issue number 2, but the most pressing is a question: how do I get hold of an English translation of the German document referred to in the excellent article on FICE in Germany. It was published in the 1970s and focussed on residential care. Could anyone help?

One other point. A graduate who has just done a dissertation on residential child care in India was asking me where it might be published. What should I say to him about Children UK? He's computer literate and so could easily send a copy to someone!

All the best,

Keith White

children.uk would be happy to publish his dissertation - Editor